Most of us ACT with a hidden agenda of will it look good i.e. how others will perceive me. This is true in any given situation whether its work or at home. Is it really good...I don’t know. Will it be meaningful in the long run? Short term results at times make us compromise and rationalise things that our heart knows are not right. I feel that we should be careful about not getting trapped in this and should take small but wholesome steps with long term objectivity and values we want to stand for.